Well, I guess it's nice of your girlfriend to think of your pleasure besides just her own, but I mean... but, not wearing a condom? It only takes one time to get pregnant/get a girl pregnant and if you end up doing that, you are responsible for that child. I mean, who would want to risk it? The safer method besides not having sex at all, would be a condom and also birth control pills. I say, if your girlfriend refuses to let you have sex with a condom on, then hold off having sex with her until you two talk some more about it and get things straightened out. Be smart, I know you are or you wouldn't have asked this question!

best of luck, ashleigh