I have been reading your site for two years now. I love it.

Anyway, in regards to the "Dale" question: I think there is a possibility that the wife might be cheating. Obviously, the husband has no real evidence that this is so, but I felt that the tone of your response does not allow for that possibility. Infidelity is all too common.

Anyhow, I agree that the couple needs to talk things over. Maybe there is a problem in their relationship. But I felt the tone of the response was not fair to the husband. Although he has no evidence of any infidelity, the sleeping wife's words do raise suspicions. The fact that she does not remember uttering them is hardly reason to dismiss the husband's fears.