My boyfriend and I enjoy a healthy sexual relationship, but I sometimes found it difficult to relax and therefore completely enjoy myself when my boyfriend gave me oral sex, as I am too busy thinking about EXACTLY what he is doing (i.e., oh, now he's doing that with his tongue, i wonder if he's going to do such and such next, etc.) to just lie back and enjoy it. We found that if I watch TV when he gives me oral sex, it distracts me from thinking about it enough so that I'm able to fully enjoy it. So while it's fairly unlikely that the guy in question is doing it for these reasons, watching TV during oral sex doesn't necessarily mean he's not interested in what she's doing.

Jodie

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Alice,

I have a comment to the boyfriend-watches-TV-during-sex question. Do not be angry at that guy! He's probably daydreaming of how marvelous you are! I'm a guy, and trust me, when you get a woman to orally copulate you, you're on cloud 9! Not that many women care about our satisfaction, at least you give a damn!!

Appreciative & Honest

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