Dear Reader,

Could your mate's movement heighten her arousal during sex? Is she uninhibited enough to care less about "normal" bedroom behavior in favor of total sexual pleasure? Is she rehearsing an upcoming Jello commercial? Do you know how she feels about your more pudding-like approach?

It sounds like the girlfriend's jiggles get in the way of your enjoyment of sex, and that moves Alice's advice to, you guessed it, talking with her about your mutual needs. Perhaps learning why y'all do or don't shake, rattle, and roll in the sack will lead to a tasty compromise. "Controlling" your girlfriend, other than to prevent her from getting hurt when she tumbles onto the floor, isn't among the advice that Alice would serve up. Whether she's aware of her mattress moves or not, restraining what might be natural and wildly exciting to her might just move her even more.

Alice